Part 2- Interview by Attachment Styles Coach & Mentor Michelle Cappelli Gordon – “LEARNING HOW TO LEAVE”

Last year, I was honored to be interviewed by Attachment Styles and Life Transitions Coach and Mentor, Michelle Cappelli Gordon. Michelle wanted to ask me about the first book in my Power of You series, Learning How To Leave. Here is the...

Part 1- Interview by Attachment Styles Coach & Mentor Michelle Cappelli Gordon – “LEARNING HOW TO LEAVE”

Last year, I was honored to be interviewed by Attachment Styles and Life Transitions Coach and Mentor, Michelle Cappelli Gordon. Michelle wanted to ask me about the first book in my Power of You series, Learning How To Leave. Here is the first part of the interview...

Dwayne Haskins and D.J. Fluker are at the Tip of an Iceberg of Male Domestic Abuse in Elite Sport. It’s Time More Athletes Stepped Forward

Article edited 4/5/22 following tragic death of Dwayne Haskins One in seven men are the victims of domestic abuse. That means there will be an average of two men in an NBA roster – or seven in a full NFL roster – who are victims within a toxic...

Codependency Anxiety and the Hook of the Narcissist

Codependency anxiety is the apprehension a codependent personality feels at the potential of being abandoned by their partner, friend, work colleague, sibling, parent or other significant person. The narcissist, anxious of being abandoned, plays on this feeling by...

Forgiveness May be your Worst Enemy – and Eat you Alive!

Forgiveness image copyright: olegdudko / 123RF Stock Photo If you have suffered a severe trauma – child abuse, rape, domestic violence, the betrayal of a long-term partner, the violent loss of someone you love – your whole world will probably lie in ruins about you....

Addicted to Injury: Why People Self-Harm

Self-harm is found in both genders, in all age groups, in every social class and across ethnic divides. But why do people deliberately cause themselves injury? The question has more than one answer, but there are two myths that need to be addressed from the start:...

Choosing Choice: Habits and How We Can Break Them

Creating associations between activities is something us humans are good at and lies behind habit formation. Breaking those associations is often more challenging and habits can become so deeply ingrained that they override our real needs. When we become aware of a...

Online Dating: Opportunity or Peril?

Online Dating Image Copyright: kzenon / 123RF Stock Photo Online dating is a 21st Century phenomenon and it is a natural extension of our social networking activity, especially if we have struggled to find meaningful relationships in our own backyard or we are on the...

When Do I Know My Relationship is Over?

Image copyright: auremar / 123RF Stock Photo It’s frightening to face up to the possibility that you and your partner may no longer have a future together but until you are honest with yourself about your doubts, you will be stuck in limbo, unable to move onto...

Abuse & the Abused: Understanding the Journey Towards Safety & Health

Abuse takes many forms but it generally means that a person or people are making another or others hurt. Whether you are a child, adult, teenager; male, female, GLBT; rich, poor; educated or not, any one of us can be subjected to abuse. There are certain steps that we...